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Friday, January 18, 2008

The choice of time and place

The choice of time and place to invite people to talk can be critical, Just as one knows

oneself that there are times when one is prepared to open up, and times when one is

not, so this can obviously be the case with other people. One of the skills of

communication is picking up the cues as to whether a person \s or is not prepaI’ed to

talk about a sensitive matter. Even if the place cannot always be chosen, sometimes the

geography of a room can be arranged to encourage, or for that matter to discourage, a

person from talking. The more status symbols surrounding the authority figure, the less

likely a subordinate is to feel free to talk. One remember one personnel officer who was

over six feet tall always made a point of seeing that he had an able but peppery works

superintendent who was short were both seated if anything of consequence was to be

discussed. The personnel officer had learned from experience that the superintendent

was self-conscious about his lack of height and so he did his best not to emphasise it.

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